פרק רביעי: פרו ורבו סוגיה 14- מקור המצווה

"פרו ורבו" – זוהי ברכתו של האל לאיש ולאישה, אך זוהי גם המצווה הראשונה בתורה.

פרק זה יבדוק את הטעמים וההנמקות לציווי. כמו כן נדון במקרים בהם הוא אינו מתקיים- בין אם מחוסר יכולת (עקרות) ובין אם מתוך בחירה שלא להביא צאצאים לעולם.

הברכה: (כז) וַיִּבְרָ֨א אֱלֹוהִ֤ים אֶת־הָֽאָדָם֙ בְּצַלְמ֔וֹ בְּצֶ֥לֶם אֱלֹוהִ֖ים בָּרָ֣א אֹת֑וֹ זָכָ֥ר וּנְקֵבָ֖ה בָּרָ֥א אֹתָֽם׃ (כח) וַיְבָ֣רֶךְ אֹתָם֮ אֱלֹוהִים֒ וַיֹּ֨אמֶר לָהֶ֜ם אֱלֹוהִ֗ים פְּר֥וּ וּרְב֛וּ וּמִלְא֥וּ אֶת־הָאָ֖רֶץ וְכִבְשֻׁ֑הָ וּרְד֞וּ בִּדְגַ֤ת הַיָּם֙ וּבְע֣וֹף הַשָּׁמַ֔יִם וּבְכָל־חַיָּ֖ה הָֽרֹמֶ֥שֶׂת עַל־הָאָֽרֶץ׃

(1) When God began to create heaven and earth— (2) the earth being unformed and void, with darkness over the surface of the deep and a wind from God sweeping over the water— (3) God said, “Let there be light”; and there was light. (4) God saw that the light was good, and God separated the light from the darkness. (5) God called the light Day, and the darkness He called Night. And there was evening and there was morning, a first day. (6) God said, “Let there be an expanse in the midst of the water, that it may separate water from water.” (7) God made the expanse, and it separated the water which was below the expanse from the water which was above the expanse. And it was so. (8) God called the expanse Sky. And there was evening and there was morning, a second day. (9) God said, “Let the water below the sky be gathered into one area, that the dry land may appear.” And it was so. (10) God called the dry land Earth, and the gathering of waters He called Seas. And God saw that this was good. (11) And God said, “Let the earth sprout vegetation: seed-bearing plants, fruit trees of every kind on earth that bear fruit with the seed in it.” And it was so. (12) The earth brought forth vegetation: seed-bearing plants of every kind, and trees of every kind bearing fruit with the seed in it. And God saw that this was good. (13) And there was evening and there was morning, a third day. (14) God said, “Let there be lights in the expanse of the sky to separate day from night; they shall serve as signs for the set times—the days and the years; (15) and they serve as lights in the expanse of the sky to shine upon the earth.” And it was so. (16) God made the two great lights, the greater light to dominate the day and the lesser light to dominate the night, and the stars. (17) And God set them in the expanse of the sky to shine upon the earth, (18) to dominate the day and the night, and to separate light from darkness. And God saw that this was good. (19) And there was evening and there was morning, a fourth day. (20) God said, “Let the waters bring forth swarms of living creatures, and birds that fly above the earth across the expanse of the sky.” (21) God created the great sea monsters, and all the living creatures of every kind that creep, which the waters brought forth in swarms, and all the winged birds of every kind. And God saw that this was good. (22) God blessed them, saying, “Be fertile and increase, fill the waters in the seas, and let the birds increase on the earth.” (23) And there was evening and there was morning, a fifth day. (24) God said, “Let the earth bring forth every kind of living creature: cattle, creeping things, and wild beasts of every kind.” And it was so. (25) God made wild beasts of every kind and cattle of every kind, and all kinds of creeping things of the earth. And God saw that this was good. (26) And God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. They shall rule the fish of the sea, the birds of the sky, the cattle, the whole earth, and all the creeping things that creep on earth.” (27) And God created man in His image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. (28) God blessed them and God said to them, “Be fertile and increase, fill the earth and master it; and rule the fish of the sea, the birds of the sky, and all the living things that creep on earth.” (29) God said, “See, I give you every seed-bearing plant that is upon all the earth, and every tree that has seed-bearing fruit; they shall be yours for food. (30) And to all the animals on land, to all the birds of the sky, and to everything that creeps on earth, in which there is the breath of life, [I give] all the green plants for food.” And it was so. (31) And God saw all that He had made, and found it very good. And there was evening and there was morning, the sixth day.

המצווה: וְאַתֶּ֖ם פְּר֣וּ וּרְב֑וּ שִׁרְצ֥וּ בָאָ֖רֶץ וּרְבוּ־בָֽהּ׃

(7) Be fertile, then, and increase; abound on the earth and increase on it.”

(א) מצות פריה ורביה - בראשית יש בה מצות עשה אחת, והיא מצות פריה ורביה,

שנאמר: (בראשית א כח) ויברך אותם אלהים ויאמר להם אלהים פרו ורבו.

(ב) משרשי מצוה זו, כדי שיהיה העולם מישב (גיטין מא, ב במשנה),

שהשם ברוך הוא חפץ בישובו,

כדכתיב: (ישעיהו מה יח) לא תהו בראה לשבת יצרה.

והיא מצוה גדולה שבסבתה מתקימות כל המצות בעולם,

כי לבני אדם נתנו ולא למלאכי השרת (ברכות כה, ב)....

(ד) ונוהגת בכל מקום ובכל זמן (קדושין לו, ב)

וחיב אדם להשתדל בה משהוא ראוי לה,

והוא הזמן שנתנו חכמים ז''ל (אבות פ''ה מכ''א) לשא אשה.

ומצוה זו אינה מוטלת על הנשים,

והמבטלה בטל עשה וענשו גדול מאד, (קדושין כט, ב)

שמראה בעצמו, שאינו רוצה להשלים חפץ השם לישב עולמו.

(1) The commandment of procreation: [Parshat] Bereshit has one positive commandment and that is the commandment of procreation, as it is stated (Genesis 1:28), "And God blessed them and told them to procreate."

(2) It is from the roots of this commandment (i.e the reason behind this commandment) that the world should be settled (Gittin 41b) because God wants the world to be settled, as it says (Isaiah 45:18), "I did not create it for naught, but [rather] formed it for habitation." This is a great commandment, through which all the commandments are observed, as [the Torah] was given to people and not to the ministering angels (Berakhot 25b).

(3) The laws of this commandment - when a man is obligated to be involved with it; how many sons he needs to have; what other commandments he is exempt from due to his involvement in procreation; and the rest of its details - are [all] explained in the sixth chapter of Yevamot and in Berachot. (see Shulchan Arukh Even HaEzer 1 and Orach Chaim 70:3)

(4) And [it] is practiced in every place and at all times (Kiddushin 36b), and a person is obligated to be invovlved with it from when it is fitting for him, and this is the age which the sages (Avot 5:21) designated to marry a woman. And this commandment is not incumbent upon women. And one who negates it violates a positive commandment; and his punishment is very great (Kiddushin 29b), as he shows that he does not want to fulfill God's will to settle His world.

ספר החינוך: חיבור על תרי"ג מצוות. נכתב בספרד במאה ה- 13.

מחברו מכנה את עצמו "איש ברצלוני", כנראה אחד מתלמידי הרשב"א.

עיון ודיון

1. בבראשית א' כ"ח ניתן למצוא שלוש ברכות שבירך ה' את האיש והאישה.

פרטו אותן והסבירו.

2. מהו ההקשר של מצוות "פרו ורבו" לסיפור המתואר בבראשית פרק ט?

3. "ספר החינוך" מנסה לתמצת את עיקרי מצוות "פרו ורבו":

מהם הטעמים (הנימוקים) למצווה זו? במה חשיבותה?

"מצווה זו אינה מוטלת על הנשים" – האם ניתן לכך נימוק? חפשו במקורות מידע

הסבר לכך. האם ההסברים מניחים את דעתכם? נמקו!

"וענשו גדול מאד" - על מה העונש? האם מצויין מהו העונש? הסבירו!

(ו) לֹא יִבָּטֵל אָדָם מִפְּרִיָּה וּרְבִיָּה, אֶלָּא אִם כֵּן יֶשׁ לוֹ בָנִים.

בֵּית שַׁמַּאי אוֹמְרִים, שְׁנֵי זְכָרִים.

וּבֵית הִלֵּל אוֹמְרִים, זָכָר וּנְקֵבָה, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר, (בראשית ה) זָכָר וּנְקֵבָה בְּרָאָם.

נָשָׂא אִשָּׁה, וְשָׁהָה עִמָּהּ עֶשֶׂר שָׁנִים, וְלֹא יָלְדָה, אֵינוֹ רַשַּׁאי לִבָּטֵל.

גֵּרְשָׁהּ, מֻתֶּרֶת לִנָּשֵׂא לְאַחֵר. וְרַשַּׁאי הַשֵּׁנִי לִשְׁהוֹת עִמָּהּ עֶשֶׂר שָׁנִים.

וְאִם הִפִּילָה, מוֹנֶה מִשָּׁעָה שֶׁהִפִּילָה.

הָאִישׁ מְצֻוֶּה עַל פְּרִיָּה וּרְבִיָּה, אֲבָל לֹא הָאִשָּׁה.

רַבִּי יוֹחָנָן בֶּן בְּרוֹקָא אוֹמֵר, עַל שְׁנֵיהֶם הוּא אוֹמֵר (בראשית א), וַיְבָרֶךְ אֹתָם אֱלֹהִים וַיֹּאמֶר לָהֶם אֱלֹהִים פְּרוּ וּרְבוּ:

(6) One may not abstain from procreation unless he [already] has children. Beit Shammai say: [One must have] two boys, and Beit Hillel say: [One must have] a boy and a girl, as it says, "Male and female He created them" (Bereishit 5:2). [If] one married a woman and waited for ten years and she did not bear children, he is not permitted to abstain [from his obligation]. [If] he divorced her she is permitted to marry somebody else, and the second [husband] is permitted to wait ten years with her. And if she miscarries he counts [ten years] from the point she miscarried. A man is commanded to procreate but a woman is not. Rabbi Yochanan ben Beroka says: It states to both of them, "And God blessed them and He said to them... be fruitful and multiply" (Bereishit 1:25).

בית הלל ובית שמאי

בית הלל- ממשיכי דרכו של הלל (נשיא הסנהדרין בתחילת תקופת התנאים). נחשבו למחדשים וגמישים.

בית שמאי- ממשיכי דרכו של שמאי (ראש בית הדין בראשית תקופת התנאים). גישתם משפטית ומסורתנית (נאמנה למסורת).

עיון ודיון:

1. נסחו בלשונכם את השאלה עליה דנה הרֵישא של המשנה.

2. מהו נושא המחלוקת בין בית הלל לבית שמאי? הסבירו את עמדתו של כל צד.

3. מהו נושא המחלוקת בין תנא קמא לרבי יוחנן בן ברוקא בסיפא של המשנה?

הסבירו את עמדות הצדדים.

פותחים סוגריים

בית שמאי אומרים: שני בנים, כבניו של משה

שנאמר (דברי הימים א כג) ובני משה גרשום ואליעזר

בית הלל אומרים: זכר ונקבה

שנאמר (בראשית ה) זכר ונקבה בראם

(3) ...Rabbi Natan said: Beit Shammai say two boys [to fulfill pru urvu], like Moshe’s sons, as it is written: “And Moshe’s sons were Gershom and Elazar" (Chronicles 1 23:15). Beit Hillel say: a son and a daughter, as it is written: “Male and female God created them” (Genesis 5:2). Rabbi Natan said: Beit Shammai say: a son and a daughter, and Beit Hillel say: a son or a daughter....

(א) זה ספר תולדות אדם ...

מאי טעמייהו דבית שמאי? כנגד קין והבל.

מאי טעמייהו דבית הלל? כנגד אדם וחוה.

(1) (Gen. 5:1:) THIS IS THE BOOK OF THE GENERATIONS OF ADAM. Let our master instruct us: May one cease being fruitful and multiplying at a time when he has no children? Thus have our masters taught (in Yev. 6:6): ONE IS NOT TO CEASE FROM BEING FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLYING UNLESS HE ALREADY HAS CHILDREN. THE BET SHAMMAY SAY: TWO MALES; BUT THE BET HILLEL SAY: A MALE AND A FEMALE, AS STATED (in Gen 5:2): MALE AND FEMALE HE CREATED THEM.80Cf. Yev. 61b for a different explanation. What is the reasoning of the Bet Shammay? Through analogy with Cain and Abel.81I.e., after the birth of these two, there were no more children until Adam begot Seth after a long interval. See Gen. 5:3. What is the reasoning of the Bet Hillel? Through analogy with Adam and Eve. R. Simon said: Adam separated himself from his wife Eve for a hundred and thirty years after Abel was killed. Adam said: How am I to beget children when they go to destruction? What did he do? R. Simon said: Female spirits would come to him and become inflamed with passion from him; for so the Holy One told David (in I Chron. 22:8): BEHOLD, A SON SHALL BE BORN TO YOU, {AND} HE SHALL BE A MAN OF REST. (II Sam. 7:14:) I WILL BE TO HIM A FATHER, AND HE SHALL BE TO ME A SON. When? When he is busy in the Torah. But when he forsook me and walked in the way of his < own > heart, (ibid., cont.): WHEN HE TRANSGRESSES, I WILL PUNISH HIM WITH THE ROD OF MEN AND WITH THE PESTILENCES OF THE CHILDREN OF ADAM. What is the meaning of THE ROD OF MEN? These < words > refer to Hadad and Rezon ben Eliada. Thus it is stated (in I Kings 11:23) AND [GOD] RAISED UP AN ADVERSARY (satan) FOR HIM {FOR SOLOMON}, [REZON BEN ELIADA].82The previous verses (14-22) concern the adversary. Hadad the Edomite. [AND WITH THE PESTILENCES OF THE CHILDREN OF ADAM.]83Cf. Gen. R. 20:11; 24:6. PESTILENCES can only be the demons (mazziqin). Thus it is stated (in Ps. 91:10): NEITHER SHALL PESTILENCE COME NEAR YOUR TENT. < The above is > to make known to you that during the whole 130 years in which Adam had withdrawn from Eve, the spirits were coming to him and being inflamed with passion from him so that he was begetting demons (mazziqin).84See ‘Eruv. 18b. At that time the Holy One said: I created my world only for fruitfulness and multiplying. So it is stated (in Is. 45:18): HE DID NOT CREATE IT AS A VOID; HE FORMED IT FOR HABITATION. What did the Holy One do? He put a sexual desire for Eve into the heart of Adam. So he had intercourse with her, and she bore Seth. Thus it is stated (in Gen. 5:3): WHEN ADAM HAD LIVED A HUNDRED AND THIRTY YEARS, HE BEGOT < A SON > IN HIS OWN LIKENESS {IN} [AFTER] HIS IMAGE. When Seth was born, Adam said: I did not ascribe my former sons a lineage. Why? Because they were accursed. But to this one I am ascribing a lineage because he is the head of [the] generations. Where is it shown? From what they have read on the matter (in Gen. 5:1-3): THIS IS THE BOOK OF THE GENERATIONS OF ADAM…. HE BEGOT < A SON > … AND CALLED HIS NAME SETH.