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If a man and woman were involved in discussing a marriage proposal and he said to her: "How much will you earn for me, such and such?" Then she responded and said to him: "And how much will you give me, or (she says) write for me such and such an amount." And there is no difference between a first or second marriage. (This is deduced from Maimonides and such is written in the Rivas"h Chapter 345): And likewise if a father is making the arrangement for his son or daughter : "How much are you giving to your son, such and such an amount; and how much are you giving to your daughter, such and such an amount